I love being a woman

Don't mind me if I blog about women stuff a little bit more than usual here. I am a woman after all. Sometimes I feel that being a women is the most beautiful thing in the world. Maybe I'm born with good circumstances and I don't have to face the obstacles that women is the past have to face but I'm really blessed to be born a women. Though I know most men when ask the question "if you were given a choice, will you choose to be born a woman or a man", will normally answer the latter. For me, I will definitely want to be born a woman again in my next life.

Besides having the freedom to dress in different styles and go shopping every once in a while (ok, more like everyday), we women get to be sensitive, motherly, strong, feminine, and all thing sweet. We can choose to be soft and helpless and the next moment be the Joan of Arc of the 21st century.

We can choose to lead busy careers or be a stay home mum having the most noble job in the world: molding leaders of the future. We can know the feeling of having a living being grow inside us and know that we have endured the toughest pain of all: child birth.

What more can be more beautiful than being a woman?

Being in this modern world, it is even more crucial to equipt ourselves with everything to make sure we are happy ourselves without counting on others, especially when we are still sometimes viewed to be the weakest of the 2 sex.

I like the article below by Mia DeAngelo.

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own,
even if she never wants to or needs to...



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .

something perfect to wear if the employer,
or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..

a youth she's content to leave behind....



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to
retelling it in her old age....



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .....

a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....

a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal,
that will make her guests feel honored..



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

a feeling of control over her destiny...



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

how to fall in love without losing herself..



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without;
ruining the friendship...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

that she can't change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

that her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW..
how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. .

whom she can trust,
whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

where to go...
be it to her best friend's kitchen table..
or a charming Inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing...



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

What she can and can't accomplish in a day...
a month...and a year...